Tuesday, January 20, 2004
Out of the blue gue nanya Nadja "Nad, do you miss Bunda?"
(Ibunda, or as Nad calls her : Bunda, is my mom, that would be Nad's grandma)
"yesssss,I miss her berry much" (dengan cadel "S"nya dan "berry"nya).
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"can we call Bunda now,Mom? can we please?? Bunda is crying right now because Bunda misses me"
udah 2 hari(or maybe 3) gue emang gak telp ke Jkt..mostly ampir tiap hari sih gue telp. akhirnya gue dial no telp rumah jkt. trus gue kasih nadja pas nada sambung. pas banget lagi nyokap yg angkat.
"Bun...what you doing Bun? are you crying Bun? I miss you Bun...what?what?what?"
kayaknya Nadja nggak denger gitu nyokap gue ngomong apa, so telp nya gue ambil.
"Ma...lagi ngapain Ma??"
"Mmmmmh...nggak, Kak..hiks...nggak ngapa2in...hiks...Mama tadi abis mandi,Kak...waktu lagi handukan (ya'elahhh detaiiiiiil)...hiks...kok mama tiba2 inget nadja..hiks..trus mama nangis..paaaaaas banget Nad telfon...apa kabar dia??"
"Hah? yang bener ma??Tadi dia tiba2 bilang ke Kakak kalo dia pengen telp ke Jkt, katanya Bunda is crying right now. Kok pas banget??"
*foto nyokap berdua nadja diatas itu waktu nadja masih 7 bulan*
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Satu lagi contoh nih..dari bulan lalu kan nadja punya hobby baru yah. Ngapain? Nge-beads...Gara2 bokapnya beliin dia satu set beads (for kids) waktu mereka pegi shopping bedua. Comes with the string, colorful beads,etc in a box. I wasnt too happy about it...karena gue pikir Nad is still too young for that. What if she puts the beads in her mouth? What if she gets chocked? What if? What if? ...
Ternyata Nad knew what she was doing. Dia tau kalo dia
gak boleh masuk2in beads itu ke mulutnya..atau lobang2 yg lain..hehehe...Trus si Nad bikin2 kalung,gelang ..ibu2 PKK banget gak sih diaaaaaaa?? Dia bilang dia mau bikin banyak..kasih ke temen2nya ...trus bikin buat bbrp temen gue juga...satu buat mertua gue yg cewe..sepasang kalung dan gelang buat gue..Gue ama hubby cengar cengir gitu...
Dah gitu yah..tuh anak rapih tertib dan teratur banget..Komposisi warnanya..cara kerjanya...cuman satu yg dia gak bisa and still needs our help...'matiin' tali nya...
FYI, nyokap gue duluuuu sempet yg addicted gitu bikin2 beads...segala lah temen2 nya dibikinin jewelry crystal gitu..gue inget banget, beli perlengkapannya di Toko Renda Plaza Senayan. Dia tuh emang kreatif banget..so nurun lah ke Nad.
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Anyway, ini sebenarnya yg mo gue bahas...semingguan setelah nad mulai ber-prakarya itu..gue cerita ke nyokap...gue bilang kalo gue selalu lupa ngasih tau nyokap (tiap gue telp nyokap) kalo skrg nadja lagi into beads...
eeeeeeh...tiba2 nyokap ngomong gini :
" Ya ampun Kakkkkkk...merinding mama kakkkkkkk...beberapa hari lalu mama lagi di rumah temen mama..tiba2 Nadja was on my mind..dalam pikiran mama itu si Nadja lagi main2 bikin2 kalung pake beads...trus mama yakin!! yakiiiin banget kalo nadja gak bisa ngiket dan nyimpul talinya..makanya dia kesel..trus minta tolong kakak...kok aneh ya??mama aja heran kok tiba2 mama kebayang kayak gitu yah??"
Ngeriiiiiii...
Kalo udah kayak gitu...gue cuman bisa bersyukur...karena keliatan banget hubungan bathin si nyokap gue ama anak gue kuatnya minta ampun.
In a way..spooky sih emang...tapi...its good to know that even though they are thousands of thousands miles apart..they are still thinking about each other a lot!!
Naaaaaaaaaah...ini foto gue pake kalung dan gelang buatan my 3 year old Nadja... Lucu yaaaaaaa....
PS :
Happy (belated) birthday to my older (waaaaaaay older) brother.
Abang Eko turned 32 on January 15th. Many happy returns...
To kakak ipar gue , Mbak Frieda.."hopefully Hongkong will treat you nice(-r than Jkt)..have a safe flight!!"
To my only nephew "baby Daffa"..Ibu Dwi misses you...kissy kissy!!!
jotted down by ibunyanadjAidan
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